6th April,
They say ‘every cloud has a silver lining’ and it turns out that is true. After months of trying and failing to sew myself a pair of trousers that fit me reasonably well, I finally have a pair. Not, I hasten to add, because I have had some incredible sewing breakthrough, but because sitting on my backside home-schooling the kids for those few of months while eating pancakes and crisps has increased my girth sufficiently to fill the pair I made that were previously too big. I have grown into them shall we say. Luckily I didn’t throw them away as they are now one of only 3 pairs of trousers I currently own that don’t cut off the blood supply to my legs, feet and other important places. Sadly they aren’t really suitable for wearing in public due to something going hideously wrong with a home dye kit and leaving them a rather shocking bright green colour with some rusty looking brown patches, it’s not a great look, even for someone with as little fashion sense as me. I still wear them around the house though as I can breathe, sit and bend down in them without fear of doing myself a mischief, I am all about comfort these days. Mark says they make me look like Kermit the frog.
With a view to fitting back into all my other pairs of trousers and jeans I am now back to walking everyday, eating healthily and intermittent fasting on the 18/6 method which is so hard in house full of unsupervised Easter eggs – the kids are too trusting. I have to do something drastic, otherwise my only option is to buy a whole new set of slightly bigger clothes, which admittedly would be very tempting if all the money wasn’t going on doing the house up. (I now have a brand new wardrobe in which to hang all my clothes that don’t fit me anymore) I know it’s an age thing, shaking up the old hormones once again for a final hurrah. Bloody hormones, bloody peri menopause. Part of me wants to just accept the 40 something age I am, say sod it, upsize all my clothes and embrace the chocolate but I can’t, eating chocolate worries me as I am terrified of rotting my teeth and ending up back at the dentist crying and dribbling like a big baby while I have another filling. Which brings me back to the only option I have left – Exercise, abstinence and avocados. Luckily the arrival of spring means that not only will the exercise do me good physically the beauty of the season is incredibly good for my mental health, I can definitely feel the benefits already.
I am pleased to report I have done better with my meditation lately, I managed to do it every morning for 7 days until yesterday when I overslept, I only realised I had forgotten when I was getting into bed last night and then it was too late (I can’t meditate when I am tired as I drop off and fall over) That’s the result of staying up until stupid O Clock drinking Prosecco the night before while watching re runs of Midsummer Murders and Agatha Christie. The intermittent fasting was conveniently forgotten too in favour of tucking into a fair few bags of some rather nice balsamic flavoured pea snacks sometime around midnight. It seems I am not quite ready to resist temptation even for the sake of my skinny jeans. Must try harder.
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My Grandad is now heavily sedated and filled with painkillers to keep him comfortable. He is unresponsive, Alzheimer’s has taken him, he won’t recover, he can’t. This is the final stage for him and he is in a world far away from us. My Grandad has gone but not gone. It breaks my heart and I can do nothing to help him.